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Sharing the Amazing News of Jesus Christ Around the World


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Sharing the Amazing News of Jesus Christ around the World

July 22, 2010 - God has given us incredible opportunities to preach the Gospel in the last six weeks, and more opportunities are coming this month.

A Letter from Franklin Graham

At the end of May, I led an evangelistic Crusade in Belo Horizonte, the third largest city in Brazil with a metro population of more than 4 million people. We were scheduled to use the large soccer stadium downtown, but were preempted at the last minute when the city had to change the dates of two championship soccer matches to make way for World Cup qualifying. We moved the Crusade to a megaplex about 10 miles outside the city, and I wondered how people were going to make their way that far out.

To my surprise, thousands came the first evening, with crowds totaling more than 65,000 on the last day, and several thousand people surrendered their hearts to the Lord Jesus Christ. In the days and weeks since then, hundreds of local churches who partnered with us to proclaim the Gospel have been following up individually with those who made decisions.

Immediately after returning from Brazil, I left for China where I had the privilege of proclaiming the Gospel in Harbin, a city of almost 5.5 million located above the Korean peninsula near China’s border with Russia. It is the largest city of northern China and has many active churches. I preached to an overflow crowd at the Hallelujah Church, which seats 8,000, and when I gave an invitation, hundreds stood to make public decisions for Christ.

While in China, a very special opportunity was given to me to visit Huai’an, the city where my mother grew up. She was the daughter of Dr. L. Nelson Bell, a medical missionary in China. The Central Church of Huai’an, a thriving church close to my mother’s birthplace, has opened a training center that will prepare 60 to 70 lay Christians at a time for strategic outreach and ministry. They’ve named it the Ruth Bell Graham Bible Institute and Museum, and it includes a historical exhibit area with artifacts, displays, and media presentations designed to preserve the stories of what God has done through the years in China.

When the Lord held back the waters of the Jordan River to allow the people of Israel to cross near Jericho, He told Joshua to remove 12 large stones from the riverbed and place them nearby as a permanent memorial. Joshua set up the stones and told the people, “When your children ask their fathers in times to come, ‘What do these stones mean?’ then you shall let your children know, ‘Israel passed over this Jordan on dry ground’ … so that all the peoples of the earth may know that the hand of the Lord is mighty” (Joshua 4:21–22, 24, ESV). The new public exhibit in Huai’an has a very similar purpose, and through it the Gospel is clearly presented.

My daughter, Cissie, and my sister Gigi participated with me in a dedication celebration as, together with our Chinese Christian hosts, we officially opened the center. The next day, on what would have been my mother’s 90th birthday, I preached to more than 5,000 people at a joyful worship service in the Central Church of Huai’an. In the audience were some of my mother’s friends who showed me photos taken with my mother when they were children. It was a wonderful experience for my daughter, my sister, and me to meet them.

What thrilled me the most, however, was when so many stood at the invitation to receive Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. While the church in America is losing religious freedom and struggling to grow, the church in China is gaining freedom and growing rapidly. It’s not perfect by any means, but it certainly has come a long way in the past 20 years. We’ve already received invitations to preach the Gospel in several Chinese cities in 2011. Pray that the Lord will give us wisdom and guidance so that we may reap the harvest the Lord is preparing.

Help Spread the Gospel

You gift can help BGEA spread the Gospel through every available means and to every nation. Donate online today to support Festivals or other ministries.

I’m preparing for another Rock the River Tour, traveling this month across western Canada from British Columbia to Alberta. Young, high-energy Christian bands will play for about an hour and a half, and then I will get up and preach Christ and trust God for a harvest. The bands will play again, and I’ll return to preach, and trust God to convict of sin and righteousness. More live music will follow, and I’ll preach God’s Gospel again and trust Him to work through the power of the Holy Spirit. Pray for me that God will give me strength, that many young people will be delivered from a hedonistic lifestyle of sex and drugs, and that the power of the Gospel will save them from Hell.

Last summer, God brought thousands of young people to saving faith as we took Rock the River up the Mississippi from Baton Rouge to Minneapolis, and I would appreciate your prayers this month for our outreach in the cities of the Fraser Valley near Vancouver, and then in Edmonton and Calgary.

Like the United States, Canada is an increasingly secularized, godless culture in great need of the Gospel. Pray for a great harvest.

As we move into a busy season of ministry in late summer and fall, BGEA’s income is somewhat down. Pray with us that God will provide resources that match the opportunities He has placed before us. Any financial gift you can give this month would be greatly appreciated. It would be an investment in reaching souls, and we are thankful for your generosity.

My father is well for his age, and his mind is clear. He wants to preach again and is hoping the Lord might give him strength to do so in coming months. I know he would appreciate your prayers. Thank you, and may God richly bless you,

Franklin Graham


President

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A.S.A.P.

Ever wonder about the abbreviation A.S.A.P.?
Generally we think of it in terms of even more
hurry and stress in our lives. Maybe if we think
of this abbreviation in a different manner, we
will begin to find a new way to deal with
those rough days along the way.
*************
There's work to do, deadlines to meet;
You've got no time to spare,
But as you hurry and scurry-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER

In the midst of family chaos,
'Quality time' is rare.
Do your best; let God do the rest-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER.

It may seem like your worries
Are more than you can bear.
Slow down and take a breather-
ASAP - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER


God knows how stressful life is;
He wants to ease our cares,
And He'll respond to all your needs
A.S.A.P.. - ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER.

A Man from Norfolk

A man from Norfolk , VA called a local radio station to share this on Sept 11th, 2003, TWO YEARS AFTER THE TRAGEDIES OF 9/11/2001.

His name was Robert Matthews. These are his words:

A few weeks before Sept. 11th, my wife and I found out we were going to have our first child. She planned a trip out to California to visit her sister.  On our way to the airport, we prayed that God would grant my wife a safe trip and be with her. Shortly after I said 'amen,' we both
heard a loud pop and the car shook violently. We had blown out a tire. I replaced the tire as quickly as I could, but we still missed her flight. both very upset, we drove home.

I received a call from my father who was retired NYFD. He asked what my wife's flight number was, but I explained that we missed the flight.

My father informed me that her flight was the one that crashed into the southern tower. I was too shocked to speak.. My father also had more news for me; he was going to help. 'This is not something I can't just sit by for; I have to do something.'

I was concerned for his safety, of course, but more because he had never given his life to Christ. After a brief debate, I knew his mind was made up.  Before he got off of the phone, he said, 'take good care of my grandchild..  Those were the last words I ever heard my father say; he died while helping in the rescue effort.

My joy that my prayer of safety for my wife had been answered quickly became anger. I was angry at God, at my father, and at  myself. I had gone for nearly two years blaming God for taking my father away. My son would never know his grandfather, my father had never accepted Christ, and I never got to say good-bye.

Then something happened. About two months ago, I was sitting at home with my wife and my son, when there was a knock on the  door. I looked at my wife, but I could tell she wasn't expecting anyone. I opened the door to a couple with a small child.

The man looked at me and asked if my father's name was Jake Matthews. I told him it was. He quickly grabbed my hand and said, 'I never got the chance to meet your father, but it is an honor to meet his son.'

He explained to me that his wife had worked in the World Trade Center and had been caught inside after the attack. She was pregnant and had been caught under debris. He then explained that my father had been the one to find his wife and free her.  My eyes welled up with tears as I thought of my father giving his life for people like this. He then said, 'there is something else you need to know.'

His wife then told me that as my father worked to free her, she talked to him and led him to Christ. I began sobbing at the news.

Now I know that when I get to Heaven, my father will be standing beside Jesus to welcome me, and that this family would be able to thank him themselves ..

When their baby boy was born, they named him Jacob Matthew, in honor of the man who gave his life so that a mother and baby could live.

This story should help us to realize this: God is always in control.

We may not see the reason behind things, and we may never know this side of heaven, but God is ALWAYS in control.

Please take time to share this amazing story.  You may never know the impact it may have on someone.  God doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called.

"Give thanks to the Lord for He is good.  His love endures Forever."  Psalm 136:1

God Has A Positive Answer

Matthew 9:36
"When He saw the crowds, He had compassion on them because they were confused and helpless,
like sheep without a shepherd."

Have you ever said the words, "I don't know what to do"?  Are you ever confused or despondent?  That's the time you reach
for your Bible.  Thanks, Lavelle, for sending me the following:
 
Hope you have a magnificent day.  Maggie
 
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HANDY LITTLE CHART -  GOD HAS A POSITIVE ANSWER:
  

 

 

 

You say: 'It's impossible'

God says:  All things are possible  

( Luke 18:27)  

You say: 'I'm too tired'  

God says: I will give you rest  

( Matthew 11:28-30)  

You say: 'Nobody really loves me'  

God says: I love you  

( John 3:1  6 & John 3:34 )  

You say: 'I can't go on'  

God says: My grace is sufficient

(II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)  

You say:  'I can't figure things out'  

God says: I will direct your steps

(Proverbs 3:5-   6)  

You say: 'I can't do it'  

God says: You can do all things  

( Philippians 4:13)  

You say: 'I'm not able'  

God says: I am able

(II Corinthians 9:8)  

You say:'It's not worth it'

God says: It will be worth it  

(Roman 8:28 )  

You say: 'I can't forgive myself'  

God says: I Forgive you  

(I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)  

You say: 'I can't manage'  

God says: I will supply all your needs  

( Philippians 4:19)  

You say: 'I'm afraid'

God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear  

( II Timothy 1:7)  

You say: 'I'm always worried and frustrated'  

God says: Cast all your cares on ME  

(I Peter 5:7)  

You say: 'I'm not smart enough'  

God says: I give you wisdom  

(I Corinthians 1:30)  

You say: 'I feel all alone'  

God says: I will never leave you or forsake you  

(Hebrews 13:5)  

Getting Older

I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving family for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become kinder to myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend.. I don't chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed, or for buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but  looks so avante garde
on my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant. 

I have seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon; before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.


Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer until 4 AM and sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful tunes of the 60 &70's, and if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love ... I will.  I know I am sometimes forgetful.  But there again, some of life is just as well forgotten.  And, I eventually remember the important things. 
 
Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not  break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even when somebody's beloved pet gets hit by a car? But broken  hearts are what give us strength and understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and sterile and will  never know the joy of being imperfect. 

I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning gray, and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on my face.  So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair could turn silver. 
 
As you get older, it is easier to be positive.  You care less about what other people think.  I don't question myself anymore... I've even earned the right to be wrong.  
 
So, I like being old. It has set me free. I like the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while I am still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or worrying about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day(if I feel like it). 

MAY OUR FRIENDSHIP NEVER COME APART, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S STRAIGHT FROM THE HEART!
 

 -  author unknown
but submitted by Elaine

God Is Good

Hebrews 1:14
"Therefore, angels are only servants—spirits sent to care for people who will inherit salvation."
   
       Have you ever told anyone that they are an 'angel'?  I've been so blessed in my life to know many - those who have  so blessed me in so many ways.  A friend sent me the following this morning, and it really 'spoke' to me.
 
Limited as we are to our steadily aging bodies,
we find it fascinating that angels can take any form that suits the message.
A "classic" angel, with wings and all lighted up,
perhaps with pale skin and eyes of blue flame,
seems to be less often glimpsed than do angels in the guise of ordinary folks of all sorts--
male or female, young or old, tall or short, any race, any dialect, any description.
- Traci Mullins,
"Breakfast with the Angels"
 
There's a commercial on T.V. - I think for a new television series or a movie - which starts with how many real friends one has. Then it expands to 'e-pals', and then to Facebook, through which one can actually have a thousand or so 'friends' .... I, personally, am not on Facebook.  I really like just having my friends from childhood through those I personally have met over the years.  Then, there are my 'e-pals' who I love, have never met 'in person', but who bless me daily via email messages.  Emails are personal.  They are not 'posted' on a 'wall' for all to view.  There are several e-pals from whom I hardly ever hear because they are so glued to their Facebook, and if that works for them, then it's great... just not my 'cup of tea'.  What I'm getting to is that I appreciate the angels in my life.  Thank you, for the love, the support, the caring, the contact.   Maggie 
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Coffee Break
 
"God Is Good"
 
"Truly God is good to Israel, even to such as are of a clean heart." Psalm 73:1
 
Many people accuse God of not being good by saying, "If He is good, then why does He allow bad things to happen?  If He is good why are there wars and violence?  If God is good where is He when evil seems to be prevailing?"  They just want to focus on the bad and negative.  Just because bad things happen doesn't mean that God is not good or that He has ceased to be good.  This morning I want to draw your attention to some areas where we see the goodness of God. 
 
Did you wake up this morning?  It was the goodness of God that woke you up.  Do you have a roof over your head, shoes on your feet, food to eat?  Then you are a recipient of God's goodness.  It was the goodness of God that did not wipe all of mankind out of existence when Adam disobeyed Him by eating the forbidden fruit.  
 
The greatest expression of God's goodness was the cross.  Mankind blew it when Adam sinned, yet God in His goodness and love toward us, sent His Son Jesus to die on the cross for our sins so that we could have another chance to have eternal life and a relationship with Him.
 
If a person would just take the time to look at the good things that the Lord has done in their life, instead of focusing on the bad, they would find that God's goodness towards them far out weighs any accusation that He is anything but good.  Today, take time to count the ways that God has been good to you.  You will find that it's too many to count.
 
Have a great day.  God is still good even when bad things happen.
 
For further reading:
 
Romans 2:4 - "Don’t you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you?
Does this mean nothing to you? Can’t you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin?"

Lamentations 3:22 - "The faithful love of the Lord never ends! His mercies never cease."
James 1:17 - "Whatever is good and perfect comes down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow." 

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Coffee Break is written by Lorraine Ezell
About the Master's Business Ministry, Inc.
 
  

Bank Account

A 92-year-old, petite, well-poised and proud man, who is fully dressed each  morning by eight o'clock, with his hair fashionably combed and shaved  perfectly, even though he is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.    
                       
His wife of 70 years recently passed away, making the move necessary. After  many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, he smiled  sweetly when told his room was ready.    
                       
As he maneuvered his walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description  of his tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on his window.  I love it,' he stated with the enthusiasm of an eight-year-old having just  been presented with a new puppy.    
                       
Mr. Jones, you haven't seen the room; just wait.'    
                       
'That doesn't have anything to do with it,' he replied.    
                       
Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time.    
                       
Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is  arranged ... it's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it.  'It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice;  I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the  parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful  for the ones that do.    
                       
Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open, I'll focus on the new day  and all the happy memories I've stored away.. Just for this time in my life.    
                       
Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in.  So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank  account of memories!  Thank you for your part in filling my Memory Bank.  I am still depositing.    
                       
Remember the five simple rules to be happy:   
                        1. Free your heart from hatred.   
                        2. Free your mind from worries.   
                        3. Live simply.   
                        4. Give more.   
                        5. Expect less.   

Are You Spiritually Healthy?


Proverbs 16:24
"Kind words are like honey—
      sweet to the soul and healthy for the body
."
To Act
Start another day just right, with a new hope.
~ Daily Thought from Guideposts

Ronnie, and a dear friend Robert, are walking every evening - to 'get healthy'.  I think it's a great idea, and cannot wait until I'm able to join them.  I don't know about you, but I tend to make 'New Year Resolutions' all year long, and usually, they fall by the wayside. Hope that you have a healthy and fulfilling day. Maggie
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Are You Spiritually Healthy?

Spiritual health brings satisfaction and happiness, just as physical health does. But you can’t get healthy spiritually by joining a spin class or running a marathon. Spiritual health requires spiritual exercises.

In a letter to his young assistant Timothy, the Apostle Paul wrote: “Exercise yourself toward godliness” (1 Timothy 4:7).

The Apostle compared physical fitness with spiritual fitness.

(1 Timothy 4:8) “Take time and trouble to keep yourself spiritually fit. Bodily fitness has a certain value, but spiritual fitness is essential, both for this present life and for the life to come”.

For spiritual growth, nothing can take the place of prayer—simply spending time with God, thanking him for his gifts to you, praising him, asking for guidance, admitting your sins and asking forgiveness and help. You will grow as you set a good example—“in speech and behavior, in your love and faith and sincerity” (1 Timothy 4:12). And “keep a critical eye on yourself” (verse 16). From time to time, ask yourself how you are doing spiritually—and take the steps necessary to continue growing.

Here’s how you can check your own spiritual health:

1. A spiritually healthy person has a definite goal. Abraham’s goal was to reach the land God had in store for him. Paul’s goal was to reach the whole known world for Christ. What is your goal for this month? This day? Think big—God will help you!

2. A spiritually healthy person is realistically humble. Paul, probably the greatest saint of all time, called himself “less than the least of all saints” (Ephesians 3:8). He reminds us not to feel self-important with the question “What do you have that you did not receive?” (1 Corinthians 4:7). St. Teresa called herself “a pencil in the hand of God.”

3. A spiritually healthy person is confident. “I can do all things through Christ Who strengthens me” (Philippians 4:13).

4. A spiritually healthy person is optimistic. They believe God is on their side and all will be well. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose” (Romans 8:28).

 Take steps today to become more spiritually fit!

~Guideposts
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HOW TO STAY YOUNG

1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay 'them' 

2. 
Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down..

3. 
Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. 'An idle mind is the devil's workshop.'

4. Enjoy the simple things. 

5..
 Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6. 
The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life apart from God, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive. 

7. 
Surround yourself with what you love , whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge. 

8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it.. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help. 

9. 
Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10.
 Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity. 

We all need to live life to its fullest each day!! 
    
 
Worry about nothing, pray about everything!!!

 

Guy Fieri - Just Like Dad

Just Like Dad

Why super chef Guy Fieri didn't have to look far for the perfect role model

Who’s my greatest inspiration?

No, it’s not a chef, though I’ve met some awesome cooks road-tripping across the country…you know, the ones at mom-and-pop joints who serve up crazy-good food. And sure, there are football players and movie stars who make me think, Wow, he’s a cool guy.

But real greatness? That I find closer to home. My biggest inspiration, the best role model this Guy could ever hope for…it’s my dad, hands down.

I grew up in Ferndale, California, a little dairy town north of San Francisco with a historic Main Street, and quaint Victorian houses. We moved there in the early seventies—the last stop in a meandering migration from Columbus, Ohio.

My parents might’ve looked like hippies with their long hair and green van, but they were old school when it came to values. They were big on hard work, responsibility, persistence. And they believed that if you’d been given a dream, it was worth exploring.

They did it themselves, opening a country-western clothing store in town, even though neither of them had experience in retail. Mom had been a teacher and dental assistant. Dad had served in the submarine corps. I loved hearing stories from his Navy days and colorful episodes from his own growing-up years in coal-mining country.

“Don’t let the specifics get in the way of a good story,” Dad likes to say.

My parents bought an old house in Ferndale. Dad fixed it up, learning as he went. He put my sister and me to work too. Dad loves to tell the story of the time we built a deck. He’d tacked all the boards in place. They just needed to be nailed off. That was my job. I had my hammer and I was pounding big 16-penny nails into the wood. Sure, I was only six, but Dad had taught me well—those nails were going in 
straight!

Some family friends came over for dinner and saw me. “What the heck is Guy doing?” they asked my
 dad.

“Finishing off the deck.”

“But, Jim, there’s like a thousand nails he’s got to put in!”

Dad shrugged. “He’s got all weekend.”

It wasn’t child labor. It was just how we did things. We kept cows, pigs and horses, and my sister and I had chores. Mine were bringing in firewood and feeding the animals every night. There was a huge trough for watering the horses. It took forever to fill.

One night I got tired of waiting and turned off the water before the trough was totally full. I went back inside and crawled into bed. Guess who woke me? Dad. “You get out there and water those horses.”

“I did,” I said weakly.

“You know what I mean, son. Go finish what you started.” I went. There was no skating by. Do a job once and do it right. Dad had no tolerance for laziness.

That included mental laziness. He always urged us to think for ourselves. “I don’t know” was not an acceptable answer. I remember one day we were driving to the dump. I was staring at a grassy field, zoning out. “What are you thinking?” Dad asked.

“I don’t know. Nothing, I guess.”

“That’s ridiculous. There’s no way you’re not thinking something.”

“Well, I was wondering, what happens to that grass? It grows and grows. Where does it all go?” What followed was a discussion about dairy farming and how much grass cattle go through.

To this day, I’m on a quest for knowledge. You can learn so much just by asking people about what they do.

Don’t be afraid to ask, that’s what Dad taught me. Don’t be afraid to try either, especially when it comes to chasing your dreams. You’ve got to know what it takes to make them come true, right? For instance, there was a time I wanted to be in the rodeo. I wanted to ride bulls.

“You want to be a bull rider, you’ve got to practice,” Dad said. “I’ve got it set up. Go down to Ron Queen’s Saturday morning.” Ron was a horse trainer who had a bunch of young bulls. Early that Saturday I put on my cowboy boots and hat and biked the five miles to Ron’s.

“I’m ready,” I told Ron. He tied a rope around a bull and loaded it into the bucking chute. I jumped on its back. Right away I got bucked off. I tried again. Same story.

“Put some rosin on the rope,” Ron said. “You’ll get a better grip.” I held on tight. The bull came out of the chute and made such a racket it riled up a cattle dog in someone’s pickup. The dog leapt out of the truck, over the fence and bit the bull in the nose. The bull freaked out and sent me flying. My arm got hung up in the rope. I did a face plant on a rock, busted my lip. Then the dog bit me in the back of my leg!

“Gonna ride one more time?” Ron asked.

I got to my feet, dazed. My right arm was killing me. “Sure,” I said. My parents didn’t raise me to give up as soon as the going got tough. I got back on that bull and held on with my left hand. This time I managed to stay put for eight seconds (you’ve got to stay mounted that long for your ride to count). I never did it again.

Never needed to. I had other dreams to explore. If it weren’t for my dad I would never have become an entrepreneur or had the guts to start my own restaurants. My very first business was a lemonade stand. I had it down—sixty-nine cents for the mix, a five-gallon jug of water, ice, cups and a busy corner on Main Street.

Then one year our family went skiing in Squaw Valley and I discovered something more exciting than lemonade. I found a guy at the lodge who sold hot pretzels. Big, salty New York-style pretzels slathered in mustard. I spent all my lunch money on ’em. Dad couldn’t believe it. “That’s all you ate? Pretzels?”

“Yeah, ten of them!”

“That good, huh?” Dad said. “Want to open a pretzel business back home?”

“How do I do that?”

“Ask the guy where he gets his pretzels. Get the address.”

I ran to the pretzel cart. “Excuse me, sir,” I said. “I really like your pretzels. Can you tell me where you get them?”

The man stared at me. “Are you kidding? So you can sell ’em next to me?”

“But I don’t want to sell them here, just maybe at home,” I tried to explain. “I mean, I’m only eleven.”

“Not a chance, kid,” he laughed. “It’s a trade secret.” I was crushed. I went to my dad and told him what happened.

I should’ve known Dad wouldn’t look at a problem without coming up with at least one solution. “Go and watch him,” he said. “Wait till he fills up that cart and see what he does with the box the pretzels come in.” I sat there, watching and waiting, for three hours. Finally I saw the pretzel man toss a box in the trash. I did a Dumpster dive and dug it out.

I went running proudly to Dad like a dog with a bird. He tore off the address and we chucked the rest of the box.

Back home he helped me write a letter to the pretzel company. We got a three-wheeler from Goodwill. After school, I met Dad at his buddy’s wood shop and we built a pretzel cart. I painted it yellow.

“What do you want to call it?” Dad asked. “The Awesome Pretzel Cart,” I decided. That summer at the town fair I set up my cart and sold hot pretzels. I made a thousand bucks. A sixth grader with his own business. It was awesome!

I’ve heard it said that what the mind can conceive, man can achieve. That’s Dad in a nutshell. Everything I’ve ever done, he’s been there encouraging me, working with me to figure things out and, yes, sometimes kicking me in the rear.

Now I’m a father myself, with two boys, Hunter, 13, and Ryder, four. My parents live next door, and the boys spend a lot of time with their grandfather—they call him Jamps.

Still, I like to think they’ve got a pretty good role model right at home. The other day Hunter and I were playing “You wanna bet?” As in “You wanna bet why they have three awnings outside that store?” My way of getting my son to figure things out, to think for himself.

“What do you mean you have no clue?” I said. “I’m not taking that for an answer.”

“You know what, Dad?” Hunter said. “You’re just like Jamps.” Did I say I’m a good role model for my sons? That’s because I was blessed with the best!